Philo-“Sophie”

What does it all mean? How do I fit in? Where is my “star stuff”?

Do you have deeper questions about the nature of this human circus?

Do you wonder why, if we are made of “star stuff,” we can feel so small, so overburdened, so tired all the time?

I do.

And I would like to invite you to a very serious consideration…

WHAT IF WE HAVE IT ALL BACKWARDS?

What if you actually have to slow down to really move fast?

What if play is the most productive work you can engage in?

What if rest, pleasure, sexuality, and fully inhabiting your body were ROCKET FUEL for spiritual growth, glowing health, and inspired relationships?

You won’t have this body forever…

SLOW DOWN, LISTEN TO IT, ENJOY IT!

Your body is your oldest friend, literally.

It draws its history back to the beginning of matter itself, 13.8 billion years or so ago.

You have stuff in your body that is only made on stars.

Unleash yourself! Discover your true potential!

Are you going to limit what is possible for yourself with your IDEAS about what is possible?

You effortlessly breathe, and digest, turn food into flesh, turn sex into children.

You don’t even know how you do it, just that you can and do.

These processes represent an intelligence that we haven’t come close to matching in our most impressive technological achievements, and none of it is done consciously.

That’s right. You do these unbelievable things without even thinking about them!

You have barely a clue what’s going on, and most of the reliable clues you get do NOT come from your intellect. They are coming from your limbic system… in English, the animal and emotional parts of your brain!

Too many of us live the bulk of our lives in our minds.

Stories, ideas, thoughts trump feeling.

We train ourselves not to be swayed by our emotions. We deny the messages our bodies give us about hunger, fatigue, desire, and all kinds of intuitive information.

We caffeinate, medicate, inebriate, and in multiple other ways manipulate ourselves on behalf of performance.

We use our bodies like beasts of burden to ferry around our ideas, obligations, and wealth generation activities. And we over- or under-indulge our body’s desires as a way of managing (or medicating) this core imbalance, often creating yet more stress and complication in our lives.

But this perspective on your “mortal coil” costs you more than just your vital energy. It obscures the deeper point of why you are here on this planet.

Stop and think carefully for a moment.

Have you ranked your IDEAS about what living is supposed to be over the actual experience of living in your body?

Have you done the same thing with your sexuality?

Are your ideas about how your love life is supposed to be significantly different from your actual desires?

I want to know your desires.

Because Desire is the tracking device indicating where the treasure is buried.

And don’t worry. If you don’t have much desire, we can dig for that FIRST.

Be good to yourself.

I advocate being nice to bodies. It’s literally the stand I take in the world.

Bodies are precious.

Utterly fascinating.

Worthy of exquisite care!

In my experience, when I am radically nice to a body, it starts to blossom and create in ways that sometimes surprise even me.

That’s impressive, because I have high expectations for bodies.

When you become truly conscious of the waves of information your body is always giving you, from the sensual to the intuitive, you will…

Open up an entirely new, exhilarating, and fulfilling relationship to life!

And when you bring this attitude into the bedroom, sex ROCKS!

You can INTENTIONALLY activate perspective shifts!

I invite you to consider a radical perspective shift that has the capacity to re-order your whole world toward inspired relationships and absolute delight in the adventure of life!

Lose your mind and come to your senses!

What if you could unbind a torrent of available energy for you to follow your inspiration and still get stuff done?

What if you could draw on your own “star stuff” to conquer the stress and strain that have been dragging you down?

We are entering a time in history where it’s not the strong, but the creative who will survive.

Aren’t you tired of just doing what you are supposed to do?

Wouldn’t you like to THRIVE?

Your precious body and your emotions are your own personal natural resource.

But you’ve been way too busy to notice.

You might be asking, “What does any of this have to do with my sex life?”

Good question.

The answer: EVERYTHING.

Your erotic energy can unleash chemistry in you that makes you feel untold flavors of GOOD.

Relaxed, bonded, in love, unified, empathetic, passionate, compassionate, spiritual…

Your sexual pleasure is a source of enormous love force!

Its purpose is to CREATE.

But our culture has so twisted our relationship to sexuality that we haven’t even come close to tapping this primal energy in service of rejuvenation and personal growth.

But YOU CAN!

And even more incredibly, you don’t even NEED a partner to do this!

Life is short!

You can’t afford to wait any longer.

Don’t be the unfortunate beggar, literally sitting, unaware, on your own gold mine.

I invite you to explore how you can achieve sexual healing through play and pleasure, rather than the “work” usually associated with therapy and coaching.

I invite you to explore how an expanded perspective on the miracle of existence can support your sexual healing in the most practical ways.

Reach out today. I look forward to knowing you.

Let me validate and support you in mining for gold and living a richer, more fulfilling life! Call me at (650) 597-9955 or complete the contact form.